What’s Actually Stopping You from Starting?I wanted to introduce this topic in my newsletter today because I’ve personally experienced it in life, and I think it might interest you. When someone has just finished high school, they might think that they will own the world. They want to finish college, get an amazing job in a big company, earn a lot, and build their dream life. Once they step into college, things begin to shape out differently. Class-to-class deadlines, exams, tuition, and evaluations. Part-time jobs with hectic hours, and your only dream becomes graduation and finding a pleasant job. Once in a career, your dream becomes the weekend, bedtime, and an easy morning. A bit later in life, you begin to rethink your path, but the fear settles in your heart. What would happen if I tried to change my life and start over with something I am passionate about? Something that keeps me awake all night without feeling exhausted, and excites me to wake up in the morning and work till midnight without regret. Yes! This is how I live my life today. I served in the army and quit. I worked in companies and quit. And now I feel free! I don’t tell you that I never feel anxious or worried sometimes, but I am fulfilled. I’ve always tried things differently, and more than once I've earned less, lived below my means, and sacrificed or postponed buying things I love. So, the question is not whether you want it; it’s the fear of uncertainty that keeps many of us from starting in the first place. However, starting doesn’t mean risking everything without regard to consequences or failure. Starting means slow moves. Taking action instead of procrastinating and using our weekends to build the future we love, and not to escape our present. Hence, don’t let fear conquer your heart. You already know what you want; all you need is a system, some guidance, and you won’t fall over. Knowledge is available, and you can do a lot simply by inquiring and learning. I hope you enjoyed this newsletter 😊 Reply and tell me what’s been on your mind lately? |
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